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Best Gay Biographies

The Kid: What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant
In The Kid , Savage tells a no-holds-barred, high-energy story of an ordinary American couple who wants to have a baby. Savage is best when detailing the emotional ups and downs that came with revealing that he was even considering gay parenting, including his anxiety about the possible disapproval of both gay and straight friends, about the ways his sex life would change and about buying the right "baby things."
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"Review of: The Kid, (What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to go get Pregnant) an adoption story by Dan Savage. Writer/ Journalist, Dan Savage appears to be an adoptive parent who gets it."
"There are some passages that talk about the unique aspects of adopting as a gay couple (they never struggled with fertility; they thought they would never have the ability to get married; the way they were treated by some family members) and about some political and moral issues around discrimination against gay people, which I could see turning off someone conservative."
"I did think that the first 5-6 chapters got a little bogged down in exposition (my internal editor was mentally removing the chapter "put this book down" as it was entirely irrelevant and didn't move the story forward in any way); once they got into the "pool" and we met Melissa I found it a much more engaging read."
"I don't mind profanity at all, but I think there's a place for it, and I find it of bad taste that he relies on it too much for this type of book."
"While this book isn't a recent release, I feel like it is an honest portrayal of their journey to adoption."
"Going through the adoption process myself, I wanted to revisit the story."
"Book was in great condition and the story kept me so intrigued that I didn't feel like a was even reading it for a college class of mine."
"Very touching and inspiring book from one of my favorite people."
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Breaking the Surface
Born to a young Samoan father and Northern European mother, and adopted at nine months, Greg began diving at age nine, and at sixteen won a silver medal at the 1976 Montreal Olympics. Copyright 1996 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
Reviews
"I also believe he did get cheated by not being featured on a Wheaties box or have many more promotional deals. Greg made me understand how hard he struggled with those feelings from such a young age. Nor has he apologized for all the people he hurt and $ my parents wasted on a big wedding. He is now married to his high school sweetheart, I know this because I found his mom on social media. A coward not a brave man like Greg.I think this is the perfect book for anyone who loved watching Greg dive and for anyone struggling with their sexuality."
"This is a very straight forward story of multi Olympic gold-medal winning athlete, Greg Louganis. His growing up had many obstacles such as having a stutter, dyslexia (which was not diagnosed until he was in college), and constantly trying to prove he was not retarded. His father by birth was Samoan, his mother northern European; both parents unmarried teens when he was placed into an adoption program."
"His quest for perfection, born from the burning desire to shout out to the world that he was never less than his fellows, was riddled with self loathing for the secrets he held so close. Understated and humble, this very handsome, extraordinarily built and sculpted figure of a young man thrilled us every moment he was in our sights and we cheered him, urged him and all but willed him to greatness. It was 1988 and as he prepared for the preliminary dive and jettisoned himself from that board, we heard the dreadful sound that would shake the Olympic world to its very foundations and would cut Greg Louganis open to his very core. As he took his first step you could almost feel the tension start to tear away at the crowd leaning forward in their seats to witness this moment and before we were able to blink, this bronzed Adonis broke the surface of the water with hardly a sound. Hundreds of thousands of people around the world cheered this unbelievable hero, this perfect being, this athlete who graced our lives with the beauty of his gift. When the news broke in 1994, primarily as a result of this book, the world again held its breath...for its hero had all but toppled from Mount Olympus with the headline. This, then is the story of who Greg Louganis really was and what molded him to become the greatest diver the world has ever known and the reticent poster boy for yet another generation of gay men."
"This book was well written but the primary reason for anyone to read it is because Greg Louganis allowed every reader entry into the essence of the man he is and more importantly the vulnerable person he has been."
"if they ever struggled with anything, greg has something that you can relate to."
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Borrowed Time: An AIDS Memoir
This "tender and lyrical" memoir (New York Times Book Review) remains one of the most compelling documents of the AIDS era-"searing, shattering, ultimately hope inspiring account of a great love story" (San Francisco Examiner). Purged of the tendency toward jeremiad he displayed in Love Alone ( LJ 4/1/88), poems written during the last months of Rog's life, Monette has fused "unresolved rage" with eloquence to produce a gripping, accessible, and essential book.
Reviews
"The book is primarily the story of the author's agonizing experience of tending to his lover illness and final death from AIDS while all around them scores of their closest friend were succumbing to the disease."
"Monette, who also died of AIDS in 1995, recounts the fear, anger, denial and all the stages of grief throughout the two years his companion battled the disease."
"This book enlightened me on the subject of AIDS."
"I wanted to write to Paul Monette to share my love of his work but alas he too had died from AIDS."
"This book truly gave me the broad spectrum of life living with aids, by the caregiver."
"If you ever doubt that 2 men can love each other, here is all the proof that you need."
"The most eloquent, loving, and brutally honest memoirs of the AIDS early era."
"The only negative issue I had with this memoir was that I thought it could have been edited a little better, but it was well written nonetheless."
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Best Lesbian Biographies

Love, Ellen: A Mother/Daughter Journey
With a mother's love, clear minded common sense, and hard won wisdom, Betty DeGeneres offers up her own very personal memoir to help parents understand their gay children, and to help sons and daughters who have been rejected by their families feel less alone. Now the spokesperson for the Human Rights Campaign's National Coming Out Project, Betty DeGeneres travels the country explaining how she came to terms with her daughter's sexuality, and how love and acceptance can transform a family.
Reviews
"Yes, when I was in Catholic elementary school, I was afraid of homosexuals that's what I was thought."
"I will soon be 80 years of age, so I can definitely relate to the changes that have transpired regarding homo sexuality."
"It's not a page turner or my normal kind of book, but something drew me to read this book and I'm glad that I did."
"Both strong women, they bring their hearts out in public for explaining some things we wonder about."
"This is a. wonderful example of unconditional love that God wants all of us to have."
"Happy to have read this book and gained a little more insight into the woman who mothered a legend, Ellen Degeneres."
"I enjoyed reading this book."
"The first half of the book, about her life and Ellen's life was good."
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Best Transgender People Biographies

Becoming Nicole: The Transformation of an American Family
In the years that followed, the Maineses came to question their long-held views on gender and identity, to accept and embrace Wyatt’s transition to Nicole, and to undergo an emotionally wrenching transformation of their own that would change all their lives forever. It’s the story of a mother whose instincts told her that her child needed love and acceptance, not ostracism and disapproval; of a Republican, Air Force veteran father who overcame his deepest fears to become a vocal advocate for trans rights; of a loving brother who bravely stuck up for his twin sister; and of a town forced to confront its prejudices, a school compelled to rewrite its rules, and a courageous community of transgender activists determined to make their voices heard. Granted wide-ranging access to personal diaries, home videos, clinical journals, legal documents, medical records, and the Maineses themselves, Amy Ellis Nutt spent almost four years reporting this immersive account of an American family confronting an issue that is at the center of today’s cultural debate. Becoming Nicole will resonate with anyone who’s ever raised a child, felt at odds with society’s conventions and norms, or had to embrace life when it plays out unexpectedly. In telling Nicole’s story and those of her brother and parents luminously, and with great compassion and intelligence, that is exactly what Amy Ellis Nutt has done.” — The Washington Post. “A profoundly moving true story about one remarkable family’s evolution.” — People. delving deep into the case of a single family with a transgender child and discovering in its particulars certain universal truths about the ways children arrive in one’s life already themselves.” — The New York Times Book Review (Editors’ Choice). If you aren’t moved by Becoming Nicole, I’d suggest there’s a lump of dark matter where your heart should be.” —Jennifer Senior, The New York Times. “A transgender girl’s coming-of-age saga, an exploration of the budding science of gender identity, a civil rights time capsule, a tear-jerking legal drama and, perhaps most of all, an education about what can happen when a child doesn’t turn out as his or her parents expected—and they’re forced to either shut their eyes and hearts or see everything differently.” — Time “Extraordinary . It’s the story of a family struggling with—and embracing—a transgender child. a timely, significant examination.” — Kirkus Reviews “This poignant account of a transgender girl’s transition offers a heartfelt snapshot of a family whose only objective is to protect their daughter. succeeds in placing Nicole’s individual story within the more general narrative of transgender rights in the United States and humanizes the issues currently at play.” — Publishers Weekly “[Shows how one] family took precious steps in order to understand, support, and celebrate differences that make us all unique. If you want to get a look into a family that has made great strides to change the way some people think about the American nuclear family, and accept the beauty of the world around us, definitely buy this book.” — Philadelphia.
Reviews
"And while Nicole’s father Wayne and I began on opposing ends of the political spectrum, I identified with him in so many ways throughout this book, and his journey felt very familiar to me. I am immensely thankful to books like this and the plethora of organizations and media attention this issue has garnered over the past 5-10 years, as they are truly invaluable to families like ours trying to better understand our children and learn how to stand up for them at school and in society. Second, I am continually amazed by children and their unquestioning acceptance of people who differ than them, but at the same time saddened and frustrated by some groups’ stubborn insistence on labeling transgender individuals as sexual deviants."
"She is the hero of this story."
"This book is not only the story of Nicole and her family and how they managed to navigate a very complex situation that affected all their lives but it is also full of information and resources that can help families that find themselves in their same shoes."
"Nicole and her family are warriors and have fought to show and to educate other people how to support and love one another, through adversity, hate, bigotry and other challenges."
"This book clearly answers the question, to my satisfaction anyway, as to how a young child could possibly know that he or she is living in a body of the wrong sex."
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